Archive for September, 2009

a quick update
September 25, 2009

I just realized I’ve gotten all excited about the monthly newsletter I started putting out in late summer, SexGeekNews, but I’ve completely neglected to post it here when any of my speaking gigs are coming up or other cool shit happens. How silly of me.
So in the realm of cool shit, back in August, I [...]

good gays, bad gays and pdas
September 22, 2009

Not too long ago, I was asked to give a kick-off speech for the Ottawa Dyke March. The theme for Ottawa Pride this summer was “Public Displays of Affection,” so I put together a short speech that addressed the idea of PDAs along with a couple of queer-community beefs I thought might be worth bringing [...]

what’s more degrading?
September 14, 2009

What’s more degrading: engaging in a sex act that some people think is gross, or being told that regardless of how you feel about it, someone else is qualified to tell you what that sex act means?
(Warning: if you’re not comfortable reading about some of the things I do in bed, stop here. I’m not [...]