Comments on: on ecstasy

By: Jessica Locke

Jessica Locke — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 20:23:42 +0000

I am so happy that i found you A ndrea and now you have brought me something entirely different. With my current relationship I am in need of lots of new information. My boyfriend and I met and dated for a year. We then split up when I was homesick after 6 years away from my home and family and too few visits, but here we are a year later trying not only to have a long distance relationship until we can move but also an open relationship. We are exploring boundaries and what we really want and some days it seems impossible when the distance is added. We love each other dearly, but are at the very beginning of exploring non-monogamy. Thank you for making all of your information friendly even for the most new individual to this endeavor. I am going to buy this book and continue to research and explore. Do either of you have any advice for a new person starting out as far as boundaries and such are concerned? We began the relationship again with much talk of being each other’s “one” or true love. I know whether or not anyone has a one true love is a highly debated topic, but that being said, being that for someone obviously comes with a certain feeling of superiority to other relationships ones partner might have. So my problem is a sort of emotional jealousy of wanting to remain that one most important emotional connection in his life. Thoughts?

By: sexgeek

sexgeek — Tue, 13 Mar 2012 06:09:58 +0000

That’s high praise indeed. Many thanks, and good luck with the rest of the book tour! Feel free to post dates and blogs here if you like – I don’t have the list but perhaps others may be interested in seeing it!

By: Barbara Carrellas

Barbara Carrellas — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 16:12:13 +0000

Hi Andrea! ::waving:: Thank you so much for “getting” this book and my work. This interview was such a blast. You got me to reflect in new ways about what I do and how. And I’m so pleased to have offered so many thesis topics (when I went back and re-read the paragraph I saw what you meant.) If anyone wants to talk about anything you raised, I’ll be checking back here periodically today. Thanks again. You are truly one of the smartest and most articulate people around sex I have ever met.