<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: trust me</title>
	<atom:link href="http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/</link>
	<description>thoughts on sex and life</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2013 11:51:33 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.com/</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Trust Me&#8230; &#171; KinkyLittleGirl &#8211; On Abuse and BDSM</title>
		<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4374</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trust Me&#8230; &#171; KinkyLittleGirl &#8211; On Abuse and BDSM]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 01:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4374</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[[...] you have got to run, don&#8217;t walk, to read the Sex Geek&#8217;s latest post entitled &#8220;trust me&#8221; [sic], which is an hilarious rant about various ways that some of the so-called more experienced [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] you have got to run, don&#8217;t walk, to read the Sex Geek&#8217;s latest post entitled &#8220;trust me&#8221; [sic], which is an hilarious rant about various ways that some of the so-called more experienced [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: sexgeek</title>
		<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4373</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sexgeek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 21:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4373</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for all the kind comments, everyone. Every time I re-read this post I keep thinking of other things I could add, or better ways to phrase things, and I am tempted to go back and edit. But instead perhaps I&#039;ll throw it out to you: what would you add to this? I&#039;m sure you have lots of ideas!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for all the kind comments, everyone. Every time I re-read this post I keep thinking of other things I could add, or better ways to phrase things, and I am tempted to go back and edit. But instead perhaps I&#8217;ll throw it out to you: what would you add to this? I&#8217;m sure you have lots of ideas!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Velveteen Glove</title>
		<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4368</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Velveteen Glove]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 20:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4368</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Reblogged this on &lt;a href=&quot;http://velveteenglove.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/399/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In a velveteen glove&lt;/a&gt;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reblogged this on <a href="http://velveteenglove.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/399/" rel="nofollow">In a velveteen glove</a>.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: kinkylittlegirl</title>
		<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4364</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kinkylittlegirl]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 07:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4364</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[OMG, this is absolutely brilliant!  I&#039;ll have to find a way to tag it on to my post on what do do about a dangerous top who is a community leader, http://kinkylittlegirl.wordpress.com/2011/01/10/what-to-do-about-a-dangerous-top-what-if-they-are-a-community-leader/, because this is *exactly* the kind of thing we often hear out of these types.

So, satire my left butt cheek.  This is all too unfortunately exactly the kind of attitudes we routinely see playing out, and is very much the stuff of which abuse is made.  

It&#039;s funny precisely because it hits so close to the reality - and of course is extremely well-written.

Beware indeed the person who feels the need to make such announcements, much like the delightful content of this post, especially when they are a &quot;community leader&quot;.  

And go ask the &quot;luminaries&quot; they cite as friends and collaborators what those people *really* think about these &quot;leaders&quot;, even when they do get the names correct.  Just because they were willing to add him to their Fetlife friends doesn&#039;t normally mean a thing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG, this is absolutely brilliant!  I&#8217;ll have to find a way to tag it on to my post on what do do about a dangerous top who is a community leader, <a href="http://kinkylittlegirl.wordpress.com/2011/01/10/what-to-do-about-a-dangerous-top-what-if-they-are-a-community-leader/" rel="nofollow">http://kinkylittlegirl.wordpress.com/2011/01/10/what-to-do-about-a-dangerous-top-what-if-they-are-a-community-leader/</a>, because this is *exactly* the kind of thing we often hear out of these types.</p>
<p>So, satire my left butt cheek.  This is all too unfortunately exactly the kind of attitudes we routinely see playing out, and is very much the stuff of which abuse is made.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s funny precisely because it hits so close to the reality &#8211; and of course is extremely well-written.</p>
<p>Beware indeed the person who feels the need to make such announcements, much like the delightful content of this post, especially when they are a &#8220;community leader&#8221;.  </p>
<p>And go ask the &#8220;luminaries&#8221; they cite as friends and collaborators what those people *really* think about these &#8220;leaders&#8221;, even when they do get the names correct.  Just because they were willing to add him to their Fetlife friends doesn&#8217;t normally mean a thing.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: The Lustful Literate</title>
		<link>http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4363</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Lustful Literate]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 05:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/2012/04/24/trust-me/#comment-4363</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sexcellent.  What voice!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sexcellent.  What voice!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
