Thanks for your comments. I think you may have misunderstood what I was saying here – I don’t think you are abusive, unsafe, or uncommunicative, nor do I think you hate women. I’m not sure where you got that impression from, as I didn’t write anything to that effect in my post, and I assure you I’m not making any such accusations. I also didn’t criticize your style of dominance or your preferences; they’re not really any of my business and even if they were, I see nothing wrong with them, as I wrote in this post.

The sole thing I criticized was the way in which you present your preferences as being what “most” dominants do, which you mention in the comments section following the post of yours which I linked to here. Perhaps that was not your intention, but it’s what came across in your writing, and I find that problematic as I discussed here, because it gives the wrong impression about just how personal and unique each dominant’s preferences are (and should be). In your comments here, you seem to agree with me on that point – so it seems we are on the same page after all. But your post certainly made it seem as though you were speaking for a mysterious “most” which I don’t think exists.

In any case, if nothing else, thanks for inspiring me to write my own post on the topic!

I am not about abuse , nor do I hurt in anyway, a submissive or slave is to be cherished , and cared for.

One thing you will never hear out of my mouth after 20 years in the lifestyle , is down talk another dominant or Domme, I never criticize another.

It is not my place to judge someone in the way they train , there protocols.
It is not my place.

Thank you for reading my blog.