no safeword for oppression, or, thoughts on being an ally

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the concept of being an ally. I spoke on a panel not long ago in which a fellow panelist said she doesn’t like the term “ally” as applied to herself because that makes it sound as though the struggle in question (whatever that may be – we weren’t … More no safeword for oppression, or, thoughts on being an ally

send me your poly art (and/or send bear and kate your gender outlaw writing)

So a lovely lady who happens to work at one of the sex shops where I regularly present just recently made a very intriguing suggestion to me. She said it might be cool if I were to turn my “10 Realistic Rules for Good Non-Monogamous Relationships” into a zine that she could stock and sell … More send me your poly art (and/or send bear and kate your gender outlaw writing)