… do with them what you will.
What’s the item of clothing in your wardrobe that makes you feel sexiest?
What’s the most sensual activity you take part in that does not involve human contact or sexual pleasure?
What three people have had the greatest influence over your sexuality? (Whether you’ve ever had sex with them, or even met them, is not the point.)
What sexual activity could you happily swear off for the rest of your life?
When does your libido tend to peak?
What are you ashamed of?
What do you regret not doing, sexually? (As in, what situation would you go back to and re-do if you could?)
What are your hard limits when it comes to sex? From there, what’s the closest thing to a hard limit that you’ve got where there’s still a teensy bit of wiggle room?
What would your perfect sexual partner be like?
What book has most influenced the way you feel about sex?
What film scene (that did not appear in a porn film) has aroused you most?
If you were to write up a sex CV, what would your three most recent jobs be?
What would you love to do, sexually, that you never expect you will actually experience? Why? And why not?
If you were entitled to someone’s service for one full week, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and all that person wanted to do was please you in any way you wished, what would you have them do, sexually or otherwise?
What kind of music do you find the most likely to get you in the mood?
What do you want to learn, sexually, that you haven’t had the chance to learn yet?
In a sexual situation, what act(s) would someone have to do in order to make you say “no” and immediately leave the room?
List three things that would feel nice on your feet.
What stereotypes, if any, are actually true about you?
Where do you go when you want to feel safe?
What five activities are reliable sources of pleasure for you, sexual or otherwise?