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Month: February 2010

rewriting the end: poly, exes and creative conclusions

February 20, 2010

Just a couple of days ago, I got the news that the husband of a woman I know was killed in an accident. I’ve been having really mixed feelings about the whole thing because, well, he wasn’t a nice guy. In fact I didn’t much like him at all. Would I ever have wished him … More rewriting the end: poly, exes and creative conclusions

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keeping an eye on the mainstream

February 3, 2010

Okay, so I’ve been off the blogging for a month now, and I feel bad about that already, and now I feel doubly bad that my first post back is gonna be about the most mainstream of the mainstream entertainment out there. Yeah, I’m blogging about Avatar. For starters, yes, I paid to see the … More keeping an eye on the mainstream

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