against the veto (or, fear by any other name…)

“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt I’ve been thinking lately about how the first question on everyone’s lips—poly and monogamous alike—when the topic of non-monogamy comes up is, “How do you deal with the jealousy?” Seriously? I’m so tired of it. The first reason is because jealousy … More against the veto (or, fear by any other name…)

non-monogamy and d/s: the warm and fuzzy and the cold and clammy

I’ve noticed that a lot of what draws me to power relationships is the same stuff that draws me to non-monogamy and vice versa. Let me lay out a few common points. Interestingly, all these points can be experienced as warm and fuzzy, but they can also be pretty darn hard. If you’ve experienced the … More non-monogamy and d/s: the warm and fuzzy and the cold and clammy

resistance

Warning! Erotic content on the way. I know, I almost never do this, but much like that time last October, I’ve once again experienced the joy of a surprise short-duration writing exercise which produced some creative juice. And so once again I figured I’d post the results here for your entertainment. This time, the impetus … More resistance