giving you more of More Than Two

Big news over here! I’m excited to share that, with Eve Rickert, I’m co-authoring the second edition of the book More Than Two, which will be published on September 2 of this year with Thornapple Press. When the first edition came out ten years ago, I gave it a rave review. I was thrilled to … More giving you more of More Than Two

my first book!

I’ve got some exciting news to share! My first-ever book, Post-Nonmonogamy and Beyond, will be coming out with Thornapple Press around this time next year. It’s gonna be a short one, but I hope to make it thought-provoking and yummy. No, this is not my pain memoir; it’s a whole separate project that popped out … More my first book!

blood and plastic: on periods, packaging and priorities

In the news in the last couple of days, you may have read about Procter & Gamble’s decision to remove the Venus symbol from their packaging because some transmasculine activists pointed out that not everyone who uses menstrual products is a woman. P&G’s official statement, quoted in the linked article, is a bit of a … More blood and plastic: on periods, packaging and priorities

on power, heartbreak and the mainstreaming of (only some) kink

This week, Autostraddle published an essay by a self-identified lesbian dominant discussing her recent break-up with her submissive. It caused a bit of a stir in the comments section; the editor shut down comment; then a reader noticed the article had linked out to one of my reading lists and contacted me in case I … More on power, heartbreak and the mainstreaming of (only some) kink