the quiz of kink and the question of queer*

I’d like to start of with two announcements for you today, both of them regarding events that will be taking place next weekend. The first is NOCK, or Northern Ontario Conference of Kink, which takes place on November 7 in Sudbury. And from November 7-9 in Peterborough, Ontario, there’s a conference called Bodies of Dissent: … More the quiz of kink and the question of queer*

projects, structure and protocol: three mechanisms for 24/7 d/s

And here’s your next instalment in the “Joys of 24/7 Living” series. Okay, so I’m not writing a series, but I’m starting to think maybe I should! Today’s thoughts are about projects, structure and protocol. I’ve been musing about these ideas for several weeks now. Y’know, it’s kind of funny how in some ways, D/s … More projects, structure and protocol: three mechanisms for 24/7 d/s

polka-dot stilettos*

Well, it’s the night right before the second edition of An Unholy Harvest begins. I’m sitting bleary-eyed on my brother’s futon, trying madly to finish a work contract, having spent the evening stuffing conference registration bags and writing volunteer thank-you notes with Jacqueline. We’ve been running off our feet, along with several wonderful volunteers, to … More polka-dot stilettos*