a million things to do

So it would appear that the next month is the absolute perfect time to be living in both Toronto and Montreal, because there’s a ton of cool and sexy stuff going on. Luckily I’m sorta doing both these days, even if I’m only paying rent in one place. Here’s a quick summary of my personal picks; details are … More a million things to do

new perspectives on dominance (or, lots of questions and a few answers)

“There is no such thing as a dominant or un-dominant activity. It’s all about the attitude.” – Raven Kaldera in his workshop “Real Service” with Joshua Tenpenny, Fetish Fair Flea, Providence, RI, January 12, 2008, Westin Hotel, Narragansett Ballroom B *** To continue with the theme of exploring dominance and submission via picking apart some … More new perspectives on dominance (or, lots of questions and a few answers)

striking the balance: the motivations to serve

“May you find balance between judgement and appetite.” – Raven Kaldera, quoting from a ritual he wrote, in his workshop “The Invisible Toybox” presented with Josh Tenpenny at the Fetish Fair Flea in Providence, RI at the Westin Hotel, Narragansett Ballroom A *** Wowee. I’m thrilled to see the responses to that last post about … More striking the balance: the motivations to serve