new perspectives on dominance (or, lots of questions and a few answers)

“There is no such thing as a dominant or un-dominant activity. It’s all about the attitude.” – Raven Kaldera in his workshop “Real Service” with Joshua Tenpenny, Fetish Fair Flea, Providence, RI, January 12, 2008, Westin Hotel, Narragansett Ballroom B *** To continue with the theme of exploring dominance and submission via picking apart some … More new perspectives on dominance (or, lots of questions and a few answers)

striking the balance: the motivations to serve

“May you find balance between judgement and appetite.” – Raven Kaldera, quoting from a ritual he wrote, in his workshop “The Invisible Toybox” presented with Josh Tenpenny at the Fetish Fair Flea in Providence, RI at the Westin Hotel, Narragansett Ballroom A *** Wowee. I’m thrilled to see the responses to that last post about … More striking the balance: the motivations to serve

d/s on the hybrid path

It’s 9:30 on a Saturday night. I’m in Providence, Rhode Island, sharing a hotel with my boi M and two hottie-hot friends. We’re in the middle of one of North America’s biggest gatherings of kinky freaks, the Fetish Fair Flea, hosted by NELA (the New England Leather Association). There’s a private party for women and … More d/s on the hybrid path