“Perhaps gender happens between bodies, not within them.” – Indra Windh (with Del LaGrace Volcano), “GenderFusion” *** Such a simple thought with so many complex ramifications. I read that quote today in another essay from Queer Theory, which continues to be a wonderful read, though I’m currently attacking a Judith Butler piece in which she predictably takes … More four-dimensional gender (theory du jour)
I really should be getting to bed, but I’m not the least bit tired. I went to a fetish night on Friday and wound up staying out with friends until the sun rose, and then had a really lovely date on Saturday night that kept me up (having a good conversation) until past 4 a.m. … More all the king’s ladies and all the kings’ men
“There are many people in this world who masturbate with a picture in their mind of being spanked or spanking somebody. I am positive that a picture of this kind, if it falls into the hands of susceptible persons – and there are many of them – they will continue and continue masturbating and will … More the nature of the erotic, or straddling the boundaries
I’m a longtime reader of Bust mag, which is sort of like… hmmm… a glossier, less cerebral version of Bitch, with more ads. A friend of mine was telling me she feels like Bust is going downhill, which I hadn’t particularly noticed, although that could be because my expectations of it are different in the … More have tits, will travel?
Welcome to the June edition of CinéKink, Montreal’s kinky film and discussion series! This is the last film of our 2006-2007 season… we’ll be back in the fall! What? “Beyond Vanilla” Directed by Claes Lilja, 2004 Film synopsis: Much as the title suggests, Beyond Vanilla explores the kinkier aspects of sex on the other side … More cinékink sunday, june 3 – beyond vanilla
When I was in elementary, my school took part in the annual day of Canada Fitness Test activities. I don’t even know if that exists anymore, but at the time, it was the bane of my young existence. I hated sports; I’d always found them to be completely pointless and irritating. (You want me to … More you gotta be strong, or gender at the gym
I’m currently reading an anthology entitled, simply, Queer Theory. It’s kinda odd how I’ve got at least five books on my shelf right now whose titles are remarkably similar to that – you’d think they’d come up with something a little more interesting. But I digress. This one’s edited by Iain Morland and Annabelle Willox, … More don’t ask why, or running in scientific circles