“Perhaps gender happens between bodies, not within them.” – Indra Windh (with Del LaGrace Volcano), “GenderFusion” *** Such a simple thought with so many complex ramifications. I read that quote today in another essay from Queer Theory, which continues to be a wonderful read, though I’m currently attacking a Judith Butler piece in which she predictably takes … More four-dimensional gender (theory du jour)

I really should be getting to bed, but I’m not the least bit tired. I went to a fetish night on Friday and wound up staying out with friends until the sun rose, and then had a really lovely date on Saturday night that kept me up (having a good conversation) until past 4 a.m. … More all the king’s ladies and all the kings’ men

“There are many people in this world who masturbate with a picture in their mind of being spanked or spanking somebody. I am positive that a picture of this kind, if it falls into the hands of susceptible persons – and there are many of them – they will continue and continue masturbating and will … More the nature of the erotic, or straddling the boundaries

I’m a longtime reader of Bust mag, which is sort of like… hmmm… a glossier, less cerebral version of Bitch, with more ads. A friend of mine was telling me she feels like Bust is going downhill, which I hadn’t particularly noticed, although that could be because my expectations of it are different in the … More have tits, will travel?

Welcome to the June edition of CinéKink, Montreal’s kinky film and discussion series! This is the last film of our 2006-2007 season… we’ll be back in the fall! What? “Beyond Vanilla” Directed by Claes Lilja, 2004 Film synopsis: Much as the title suggests, Beyond Vanilla explores the kinkier aspects of sex on the other side … More cinékink sunday, june 3 – beyond vanilla